Lost -everything-

My wife and I have been playing this game for a bit.
After doing the tutorial, we set up our primary base in Abeyance.
We spend a whole weekend setting up an incredibly complex house with every crafting station in its own designated space. We had thousands of wood and other items ready to spend.

Then we do the Sylvan Cradle quest line.
We finish it, no proble.

When we return home to Abeyance - Everything - is lost. All we build, all our items, everything.

The whole realm seems to have reset back to its default starting point, and honestly, this is making me want to quit the game entirely.
We spend 24 in-game hours, all to see everything completely lost.

Don't know if its a bug.
Don't know if its intendet.

Even our portal to Sylvans Cradle is no longer open.

If this area is not suposed to be used as a permanent base building area, the game does a really bad job at warning the player of such.

I wish there was a roll-back option so we could get all our stuff back.